Well,
finally I have managed to get some time to update my blog. The last title I
have come up with is “Happenings from my end kind of post” which happened to be
the first post in the last 2 months. What started as a regular blog has now
reached to a phase where I am updating my blog once in two months. I have been
trying hard to keep this space updated but the way I see, there is no proper
time.
Today,
I have come here on a purpose. I am being challenged on a regular basis. I am
told that I hold no importance to people and I also hold no importance to
relations. Well, I can dig deep into this, but let me put it simple and clear.
Life
teaches you lot many things. You learn to lead your life based on your past
experiences. You have a different perspective towards life. But your perspective
towards life may not be the same with others. And so are the priorities.
I
had a past. A past that has a very little to cherish. A life of a typical below
middle classed guy who doesn't give a damn about anything. Sleeps on terrace
during summers and stare towards the dark sky dreaming of something that is far
from reality. Watching planes disappear into the clouds is his favorite observation.
The idea of reaching somewhere close to an airport itself is an achievement back in those days.
I
have absolutely no idea of where my life is heading to.
2
years down the line. I was waiting at Gate 5 of Chennai Domestic Terminal waiting
to Board my maiden Air Asia flight to Bangalore. Believe me, that very moment I
have realized how my life has changed. I have traveled in Indigo before this
one. The first time I stepped into an airbus on April 4th 2014. I
have experienced Goosebumps. The cabin crew like in the movies took me by
surprise. I really loved these air travels. I don’t think there is anything
more luxurious than air travel. I am happy that I have managed to experience an
air travel.
Time
flies by. When I look back today, I see the past sufferings. I see the amount
of struggle mom and dad had faced. I remember the days when I was on roads. I
remember that critical moment of time when I was left with no choice and when I
had no place to live. Believe it or not, I was on roads with my luggage for 8
hours on a sunny day having no idea of where to go. I was left with no choice.
And
I felt lost.
Everything
in which I believed collapsed right just there.
And
it’s when I started to think.
And
then, there is no look back.
There
isn’t much I have done to my life ever since I started thinking. It’s the
choices that I have made to my life. At some point of time, everyone will have
the opportunity to take some serious decisions and you need to get them right.
Fortunately I have got them a little right. I have started not to think about
what people had to say. I have started not to look after any relations except
mom and dad. I have ignored everything for some period of time. I have made my
own decisions and I have decided this is how my life is going to be.
There
are people who come against your wish. But you need to be strong enough. You
need to back yourself and stick on to what you believe. Keeping yourself away
from relations for some period of time is very much okay. It’s your life and you
are the one who has to rule. Try changing your attitude and work towards
progress.
I
have got a few points to people who wish to see a change in their life.
And
voila!
1. Never ever give a damn about what
people think.
2 Do what you love and love what
you do.
3. Realize the importance of life.
4.There is a magic in life. Try
experiencing it.
5.You are here for a purpose. So,
better know your purpose.
6.There is no one else who can
judge you better than you.
7.It’s your life. You need to take
the decisions. Not the third person.
8.Try to think out of the box.
9.Get out of your comfort zone.
10.Keep yourself updated all the
time.
11.Gadgets are addictive. Stay away
from them.
12.Make a habit of reading. It’s
when you get into the right direction.
13.Interact with people.
14.Eat good food. I have seen people
who don’t invest much on food. That really wonders me.
15.And finally, Live life to the
fullest. You never know what tomorrow had in stock for you.
Well,
these are the points I can make out as of now. I have followed most of the
points and that is the reason why I am sharing this to you. I may have lacked a
bit when it comes to interacting with people. But I am sure I will come well in
future.
I
hope this post of mine will help you prosper.
Always,
Jay.