Happy Birthday Annaya.

You had been with me all the time. All through these 21 years. You are considered to be the BEST when people compare you with me. You did reasonably well at academics and also played a handy role at sports. I always tried hard to reach close to you but failed all the time. But that never bothered me because I always feel like you are leading me from the front. Happy with the fact that you are ahead of me always. 

I'm much into relations these days. Found some love with family relations, siblings and what not?! Joint family is something which makes me feel exciting. Guess I will certainly fall for one who comes from a BIG family. It's going to be all fun. 

The last post I made up was about siblings and this one is about my own sibling. So far I blogged about dad, mom, friends but never ever mentioned about him. Okay. I decided to fill the gap right here. And you know what?! It's his birthday today. What a co-incidence. We had certainly rules that we strictly follow for birthdays. And you will be knowing it in detail while reading this post further. 

May 4th 2013:

11:30PM: I was busy texting to a friend of mine and was having a kind of ok-ok conversation and I suddenly realized that I still have 30mins more to wish my brother a wonderful happy birthday. 

I was saying to my friend about my brother in the mean time and waiting for the clock to hit 12. Sometimes It's hard to pass a min when you badly wanted that to happen. Finally the time has come. It's 5th May 12AM sharp. 

12:01AM: Happy Birthday Annaya!! :) 

I wished him via Text message. It's not that he is out of Country and all that. He lives in Hyderabad. I can make a call and wish. But I didn't do that. I never wanted to do that anyway. 

12:02AM: A big Gift has already come. Thanks a lot!!! :* 

Reply came from the other end. Rocket speed!! That message certainly means a lot to me. 

I see people celebrating their birthdays in the best way possible. They are with family and friends all the day. Cakes distributed, Sweets passed, parties been paid on a large scale. People around them will make it happen. They celebrate your birthday just to make you understand that they are with you always. 

If you ask me of birthdays?! What it feels like celebrating one?! I always reply in a single point. Birthday's must be simple. I mean all my birthdays so far are very simple. I can still remember I cried for my last two birthdays for no particular reason.

I'm happy that my brother gets sync with me in this particular section. Our ways are way different. I always hang out with friends where as he prefers to stay home. He is responsible and I'm not. He is so good at using a gadget and I'm not. He is passionate about working for some BIG Multi National Company. He always wanted to be a Software Engineer by Profession. And now he is. 

We used to fight over small things in life. This was his 2nd birthday away home. I'm happy that he is away. You get to know the value of people when they are away from you. When it comes to my brother we make good siblings when we stay away. Not too far away. Must be within the reach. 

Finally a few points I would like to make up before I end up with this post. 

1. I went a bit emotional when you gave me a 500/- rupee note when you first received your salary. 

2. Happy with the way you changed yourself from being arrogant to a responsible human being. 

3. You always wanted me to be responsible. I must say I'm working hard on it. 

4. You always use a different kind of vocab while updating a status. There is a kinda style in it. 

5. You have a passion of owing a MacBook Pro but having no enough bucks with you. I wish I would wanted to give you one had I got a job by now.

6. I hope you are happy with reading my blog. 

We have struggled for the last 21 years. Be it financial troubles or academic failures. We hardly had best times to cherish. I guess the days had just begun. It's time to payoff. 

I always had one thing in mind. If we two join hands together we can create some wonders. It's a matter of two brains. I always wanted to achieve something BIG in life irrespective of the way other people look at it and so you are the one in such similar manner. I hope you achieve terrific heights in LIFE. 

DO NOT LIVE LIFE JUST THE WAY OTHERS DO. MAKE AN IMPRESSION OF YOUR OWN. 

Once again wishing you a wonderful Happy Birthday!! 

Love you lots!!

Happiest Siblings Ever.

Before I could say anything about the happiest siblings I would like to yell out of my heart for not being so consistent in blogging for the last 30 days. The scenario is worst compared to the last 10months. A part of me always having something to say and that's the only reason why I'm into blogging. I'm not here to make money, I'm not here to criticize anyone. I'm here just to pen down what my heart says and I'm happy with the fact that there are some really nice people who are writing back to me saying I'm doing a fine job. 

When someone asks me about "What kind of impact can siblings create in your life?!" 

I say, Firstly you will never feel lonely. Second, You can share anything you want to which you can't possibly do with your friends or your parents. Third, You fight with them over small things. Fourth, You never wanted be separated! (The above four reasons are applied for the ones who love their sibling(s). There are some who keeps on fighting all their life-time) 

Flabbergasted to find one such great siblings in life-time. It's a dear friend of mine. She is so very happy to have an elder sister in her life and when she says about her sister she means the world to her. In simple words it's called the PUREST form of LOVE. Not many are blessed to experience this kind of love in their life. But some do. I'm happy it's my friend who is always showered with all the love from her sibling.

And I always feel sorry for girls in particular when it comes to relations and family. The ratios are different compared to men. Life of a women is way different from men. Things aren't the same before a girl gets married and after getting married. There will be boundaries and limits for everything once after getting married. A girl is not supposed to visit her own house, her own parents, her own people when ever she wanted to. She needs to be given a NOD from her in-laws and her husband on top. I seriously don't understand why women have so many such restrictions. 

Under such circumstances I find Ankita and priya remain the bestest of siblings ever. Ankita is a friend of mine and Priya is her sweet sister. I never thought I would get such close to Ankita in less time. She is usually sweet and lovely all the time. Last 20 days will certainly be the best days for me. I got to know much about Ankita and her sweet sister Priya. Needless to say I have developed a huge crush on Ankita already! Haha. I must say it's Inevitable. I mean it's hard to find people like Ankita and priya these days. At times I feel like they are old fashioned. But they are NOT. They never wanted to lose their best quality. It's spreading LOVE with no selfish thoughts.

Coming to Priya the sweet sister of Ankita. We met only once. It's when Ankita introduced me and we hardly exchanged words in our first meeting. It was in the next couple of days where I had a conversation going with priya on phone which I cannot make up in my blog. It's personal. :D And then I got to know much of priya and Ankita. They don't have ego's to break. They are supportive all the time. I must say they are such lovely siblings. 

Things aren't rosy with these two all the time. Priya is now getting married and she will be leading her own life hereon. It's not that they are going to miss the best of times but they will surely find it difficult to go with. Things will not be as same as they were earlier. All Ankita could do is to wait for her time to come. I felt so touching when I had such a conversation with Priya earlier. Somewhere I had small urge of being part of their family. I'm so sure it's hard to find people like Ankita and Priya. They are simply the best. Keeping everything aside It's time to MOVE ON. 

Finally few lines to the Happiest Siblings Ever.

"Ankita and Priya I have learned a lot from you. Seriously there is a lot to be learned. You are gifted siblings. I wanted you to be the same as you are now. The way you both organize yourself was simply amazing! Hey Ankita! I had to say something for you. I had individual conversations with both of you and all I could figure out is Priya loves you like hell and I know you love priya with all your heart. So keep the momentum of love going all your life. Keep Smiling!! :)

 At last "I Love you both more than I do myself."